Can you please forget about that!!!

You see whenever someone who is close to you make a mistake or somehow hurt you (mostly deliberately) and when you mention it they’d go “honey can you please forget about it” and when they repeat the same thing you would talk about and it they’d go blaming you “hey you said you forgave me and forgot about it”.

You see there are few things we have to understand we humans don’t have silicon chips and transistors and capacitors in our body (except for those few who actually have them). So when something happens we can’t just forget about it like we do a “Shift+ delete” on a computer system. no!! not in this world, that feature was never enabled for us humans, and the fact is not even on a computer system, whatever you do it seems there are people who can “actually” get it recovered.
Especially when we humans get overjoyed or are hurt badly, we humans never forget those moments, it’s like they are carved on to our DNA strains. (if so I guess they might even be passed on to the next generation) so no matter how much our love to someone would keep us quiet, when we experience the same kind of happiness or sorrow, similar moments like that form the past would be recalled by our brain. No matter how much we try not to mention those good moments we had with our ex when we have similar moments we end up upsetting our partner by mentioning the past event.
We should understand this is a common thing in all human beings so we don’t have any right to be mad at our friends or partner about things like this and blame them for “dwelling on the past”. If we know and understand we all have this character and its things which make us really value and appreciate our life. We would have a better understanding and a lovely bond in our relationship, rather than that suspicious look with the thought our partner is always thinking to get in touch with their past.
Life would be pretty boring if we could just forget things when we want or when someone tell us to do so, some of us would not even have a single bit of memory or moment to be happy or to reflect onto.
So stop telling me whenever I point out your fault to forget about it!!! I won’t!!! I’d even blog about it and distribute flyers about it.